I am totally a person who can't stand awkward silences. I end up saying some really weird stuff just to fill the gaps in conversations. This is something that I am constantly working on. One thing that has helped me become a better conversationalist is learning to ask questions! It is brilliantly simple. People love to talk about themselves, and it is a topic we can all relate to. A single question can lead to an entire conversation. Plus it helps you get to know someone!
Here are a few of my go-to conversation starters. These are great to pull out when a conversation hits a low, or you are just on a long road trip and need something to talk about.
-Where is your most favorite place on earth?
-Star Wars or Star Trek?
-What super power would you choose?
-What is your first memory?
- What is your coolest scar?
-Who is your best friend?
-Who do you want to know better?
-What is in your wallet (or purse)?
-What is your biggest pet peeve?
-What was the last movie you watched?
-What is your favorite ice cream flavor?
-Are you a spender or a saver?
-What books are on your bedside table?
-If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
-Front of the bus, or the back?
-What would be the best compliment I could pay you?
-What was your first pet?
-Where were you on September 11th 2001? (or another big day in history)
-What is your favorite day of the week?
-Who was your favorite teacher?
-Who is your favorite Bible character?
-What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? lunch? dinner?
-Do you have a nickname?
-If you had to go into Witness Protection, and had to choose a new name-what would it be?
-What would your perfect house look like?
-What is the most unusual food you have ever eaten?
-City life or country life?
-Are you a leader or a follower?
-If you worked in the mall, what store would it be?
-What is your favorite board game?
-Beach or mountains?
-What is your most embarrassing moment?
-What would be your perfect day?
-What chore do you hate doing? or love doing?
-What book can you read over and over?
-What qualities of your mom and dad do you hope to have?
-Dogs or cats?
-If you had to gain 10 pounds, what would you eat to get there?
-If you could ask God one question what would it be?
-What would you grab if your house was on fire?
-Do you hate losing?
-What is your favorite exercise?
-Where did you grow up?
-What is the first thing you do when you get home from work?
-What is your dream job?
-Have you been out of the country?
-What TV shows do you watch?
-What was the last concert you went to?
-What are you doing next weekend? or did you do last weekend?
-What famous person do you think you could be friends with?
-Have you ever won a contest?
-Do you prefer texting, calling or emailing?
-When were you the most scared?
-What do you like on your pizza?
-If you had to lose one of your senses, which would you give up?
Leave me a comment: Give me your favorite questions to ask! Do you want to know my answer to any of the questions?
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